5 years from now. tony will still be silly and selfish (as he was already 1.5 years ago), but he will regret nothing and his life will still move forward.
5 years from now she will either grow out of her snowflake ideals, or suffer for them as she cant cope with the world based on them. she will be set back 5 years, and either have regrets, or blame the world around her for not changing like tony also couldnt.
meanwhile tony is drinking wine with lego master builders and living off his tv career.