i was just talking about something and a person spun a joke off of it relating to my low attendance at school due to a struggle with depression. these people make that joke more often and i decided that the nth time hearing it was enough and asked them to stop as it hurt. thats where the "sorry you feel like that" comes in. i called him an starfish for the non-apology which was a green sign for them to make personal attacks, one involving my previous struggle with addiction. while this is going on other people are posting memes in negative light about me and generally disregarding my admittance to being hurt. i was told they had doubts of my emotions and felt i was just being a drama queen and that i should just take the 'apology'. i brought up how i started the entire thing with "please don't make this joke again it hurt my feelings" but it was pointless and i left the chat.
i went to a few people in private who were posting the negative memes or hyping up the other person to tell them it made me feel bad that they were doing so, in which they responded in a similar way, not really showing any care about how the situation made me feel. that made me decide to also leave the smaller groupchats in which these people other than the main bully was in
im sure you guys know im a sensitive person, im still pretty shaken up from the situation.