How am I loving dismissing you when you keep making statements to try and de-validate my points and pin the whole situation on me, like you've been doing ever since I've joined BLF it seems? Stop hopping on my ass in hopes to get me banned or some stuff. You've been doing it for loving ages now and it's irritating as all hell.
i haven't been hopping on your ass ever. i'm making statements to try and invalidate your points because this is a loving discussion where i share a different opinion from you. you're reading way too into this. i don't think there was ever any situation nor have i ever tried to pin it on you.
you know what's irritating as hell? you blowing your loving top over any minute issue ever. any time there's any discussion or drama you go into full handicap mode and from 0 to nuclear.
No, I'm making smart assumptions about stuff and actually thinking it through, instead of going "welp his life forgeted he should kill himself lul" like you are. You're not even putting any loving thought into what will happen and what he will cause with his decision, you're being just as selfish as he is.
your assumptions may be smart (subjective) but they are just that, assumptions. i'm stating what i truly believe in because i believe that nobody's life really matters. what gives you the say in how thought out my beliefs are? forget you
how can i be selfish when my mindset affects no one but me
I'm saying it's healthier to live out your life trying to make the best out of it is much healthier than being a depressed forget and trying to kill themselves like you're trying to defend for him doing. Living your life moving on from bad emotional stuff from the past and trying to make your life worth while is always much better decision in the long run. If you can't, then get others to help you. There are psychiatrists, doctors, friends, family, phone hotlines, activities, etc are all things that can help you move on with your life and make yourself happy.
again, this is all just assuming. i'm telling you that you are not wrong nor right but it will be dismissed because you just assuming.
It's much more healthy for you to know what will happen in the far future and to try your best to make your life worth while.
assuming, dude. i can't say that you're right or wrong because i don't have an answer.
I do because it's a valid option and it most certianly is possible. For him, he could've just visited his children and family to help him feel better overtime which in the long run would help him move on and for his ex-wife and kids to move on as well. I'm highly sure that he doesn't want to put his family and children in the immense amount of stress that Self Delete would cause.
assuming again, dude. no comment.
Keyword: thought. I never went through with my idea. Why? Because I knew what stress I would put through with my parents and what huge amount of trouble they would get in with the law, and what huge amounts of stress and stuff I'd put through with all of my friends, close family members, relatives, cousins, and quite a large amount of people who know me as well. With the help of a few of my closest friends and with myself, thinking about what stuff-show me killing myself would cause, I decided not to do it and I managed to get myself to move on. Sure I still get major depressed spells. But instead of trying to killing myself over and over, I look to the brighter sides of things and talk to my friends and help myself move on and feel good again.
if you really wanted to kill yourself you would've done it. you didn't go through with the idea because you didn't want to kill yourself.
your steps may work for you but it has a chance of not working for anybody else.
Like you said, life is what you make out of it. Do you choose to make it into a living hell by dreading on stuff and killing yourself, or do you make it a good life by being optimistic and trying to be happy and moving on from the bad things in life, not letting them bring you down?
i don't choose to make life a living hell. i choose to make it into a motherforgetin paradise where i can enjoy it. this will happen soon once i get a job and finish school
you're also assuming that you have to be optimistic to be happy and have a good life
protip: even though my replies may be small i still read and acknowledge all of this
