i will continue ignoring it until you stop dismissing mine dude
you can only get what you give in this situation
How am I loving dismissing you when you keep making statements to try and de-validate my points and pin the whole situation on me, like you've been doing ever since I've joined BLF it seems? Stop hopping on my ass in hopes to get me banned or some stuff. You've been doing it for loving ages now and it's irritating as all hell.
you make your statements as if you're 110% sure they're gonna happen
No, I'm making smart assumptions about stuff and actually thinking it through, instead of going "welp his life forgeted he should kill himself lul" like you are. You're not even putting any loving thought into what will happen and what he will cause with his decision, you're being just as selfish as he is.
yes you can and how is it healthier to live in suffering than to end it right then?
what if they can't?
I'm saying it's healthier to live out your life trying to make the best out of it is much healthier than being a depressed forget and trying to kill themselves like you're trying to defend for him doing. Living your life moving on from bad emotional stuff from the past and trying to make your life worth while is always much better decision in the long run. If you can't, then get others to help you. There are psychiatrists, doctors, friends, family, phone hotlines, activities, etc are all things that can help you move on with your life and make yourself happy.
why?
It's much more healthy for you to know what will happen in the far future and to try your best to make your life worth while.
how do you know that every issue is solvable within a few days or weeks? this dude could have deeply rooted mental issues and is going to attempt Self Delete several more times for all we know
even you thought about killing yourself via bleach
I do because it's a valid option and it most certianly is possible. For him, he could've just visited his children and family to help him feel better overtime which in the long run would help him move on and for his ex-wife and kids to move on as well. I'm highly sure that he doesn't want to put his family and children in the immense amount of stress that Self Delete would cause.
even you thought about killing yourself via bleach
Keyword: thought. I never went through with my idea. Why? Because I knew what stress I would put through with my parents and what huge amount of trouble they would get in with the law, and what huge amounts of stress and stuff I'd put through with all of my friends, close family members, relatives, cousins, and quite a large amount of people who know me as well. With the help of a few of my closest friends and with myself, thinking about what stuff-show me killing myself would cause, I decided not to do it and I managed to get myself to move on. Sure I still get major depressed spells. But instead of trying to killing myself over and over, I look to the brighter sides of things and talk to my friends and help myself move on and feel good again.
Like you said, life is what you make out of it. Do you choose to make it into a living hell by dreading on stuff and killing yourself, or do you make it a good life by being optimistic and trying to be happy and moving on from the bad things in life, not letting them bring you down?
There, I answered all the counter-questions you've thrown at me. Hop off my ass already.