You see, this mindset contradicts every scientific psychological study to ever exist. It's been scientifically proven in numerous studies that your childhood environment literally defines the rest of your life.
studies oh cool where they at because I don't see any
The idea that you can break out of that is good in theory but requires a loving lot from the individual. It's almost impossible to exit the crippling environment that a lot of children have to go through, and many people actually never leave it.
so all of my incredibly poor mexican friends who have jobs and a stable income despite being from a forgeted household aren't real then I guess.
myself and a bunch of my friends, that were constantly labeled trouble makers by the teachers or were called bad students just because we weren't excellent at Math or Science. This happened throughout elementary school and middle school, and as we all went to stuffty high schools later, it continued there. When you're told your entire life that you are bad at something, the chances of you adopting this nature are close to 100%.
Exactly the same thing happened to me, I've always been garbage at math and science and was labeled a trouble maker but I don't see the significance of that, despite all of those things I still have a decent income and a stable life.
Oh yeah, not to mention when growing up both of my parents were complete drunks who only had screaming matches and threw stuff at each other, that was the environment I grew up in, yet despite growing up in such a stuffty environment of alcoholism and anger and poverty, I somehow have managed to become an incredibly decent person with very good morals and as previously mentioned a stable job and stable income, along with my parents sobering up almost completely, to the point where my mom stopped drinking altogether, and now they're the best loving parents I could've asked for.
before you bring those studies to me, check where they were conducted, for how long they were conducted and how many families/environments they were conducted in, because these claims of yours still continue to reek of absolute bullstuff.
what makes you think anything is "subject to change" if they already grew up in a bad environment, and have likely already done something that prevents them from ever leaving that bad environment and "changing?" (tip: nobody actually escapes the ghetto and integrates into society completely normally)
because everything is subject to change, it's not an opinion or anything, it's scientific fact down to the core of existence, nothing is definitive and never will be completely definitive because everything is subject to change.
and what is normal to you then, Poli? Because rich kids never integrate normally with them and their stuff attitudes and expectations because they've been taught that they get whatever they want, and kids from the ghetto never integrate normally because they've been taught violence and self-loathing, but even then those two aspects don't represent every kid in every one of those crowds.
