red spy having "red spy" as his blockland forums username automatically makes him want to forget the red spy by your logic
no but if he constantly posts pictures of crudely drawn red spies and gets defensive the moment someone mentions that he's going overboard, then you'd know he has a problem
Once again projecting your insecurity on to others. You literally cannot admit you're wrong, can you? You'll just find something else, like a semantic or an anecdote to deflect attention to, rather than make any attempt to improve