pretty much all the furries i know rly only show it in their pfp or somewhere relevant and aren't so in-your-face about it and don't usually mention it unless it's brought up so idk where ur finding these other ones so much unless ur like actively looking for them or find an annoying one or two and assume it represents them all or something
I'll admit I have some issues with generalizing but if I'm going to be honest with you I have had way too many problems with many fandoms in my lifetime. The fandom I have had issues with the most in my time are weeaboos or otakus, whatever you want to call them. I have consistently fallen out with them and argued with them, the ones I know in school are also extremely untrustworthy (through my experineces), extremely rude (one guy I know that is in my classes is a total weeaboo and all he ever does is take the piss out of me for no reason) and also deviate from social norms way too much (which is the obvious in most cases).
I am not on my edge lord
genocide crusade to find these people, I am in the same environment as them. All they do is cause problems and I do not have time for their problems. On the subject of furries, one of the furries I knew was getting on my nerves. He wouldn't leave me alone and continuously spouted bullstuff about his "fan art fantasies" so I told him to forget off because I had enough. This guy gave me some resources for SFX in my videos which were useful. When I commented on his steam profile to say I had used the sound effects he gave me and that I am sorry for any falling outs that have happened in the past, one of his furry friends (who had a furry avatar) responded saying "excuse me? his enemies are my enemies". The issue here is they are attached to drama
These people search for constant bullstuff on a daily basis, they are the same as those stereotypical high school cheer leader girls who are drama queens and hang with the "
alpha chads". What these people need is a sense of reality to stop causing problems when there is no problems in the first place and like some of the people in this topic have said these people have some sort of issues at home or some stuff. One of the only fandoms which I have never encountered a problem with are bronies and that's crazy because people are bashing them all the time. The bronies I know are respectful and actually never sprout their stuff everywhere, of course every fandom has the cringy side of it but most of them I've known have never disrespected me or anything.
At the end of the day it's about being respectful and kind, not searching for trouble.