it's not funny. it's sad that someone lost their life who could have been easily saved if they just weren't brainwashed into a surgery that's scientifically proven to cause a host of mental illnesses
you got it the wrong way around.
i've recently been diagnosed with minor gender dysphoria by like two therapists. its very very hard being a functioning human being in society when you wake up twice a week and feel absolutely uncomfortable in your own skin for no reason. every muscle you move feels clunky and foreign and you just wish you could move gracefully and have perfect motor control. every time you look in the mirror you just see a genetic failure and it brings some of the most crippling anxiety possible to feel at any moment. in fact it cant even be described in words.
taking hormones and changing your image only helps alleviate the anxiety a bit by making you feel more comfortable and confident, but you know deep inside you'll always be in the wrong body no matter how much makeup you put on. and when you're drunk, the discomfort just increases exponentially to the point where you do stupid stuff like break all the mirrors in your house or even try to hurt yourself. its not fun.
i deadass battle all this while holding a barely stable income from my job, which im constantly calling out of due to panic attacks. and i haven't touched HRT or surgery in my life. this isn't your struggle, so stop pretending like you know what's good and bad for us.