hmm i'd play ss13 but it looks dead and also cring
there's 130 players on the server i main every night...
if you think its cringe its not going to be the game for you. to have fun or to be respected you need to be competent with mechanics that require you to read wikipedia pages, and if that doesnt sound fun, then you wont get into it & probably end up banned for 'greytiding'.
also, servers tag themselves as low, medium and high roleplay, the latter usually even allowing erotic roleplay. if building a story with someone by using ** or /me doesn't sound interesting, you might get bored of the game as well.
oh and i guess youd still need to get over that cringe thing even if you ended up liking roleplay and difficult gameplay mechanics