That's why there's two aspects to the game. Rarely does somebody do both. I in fact, hate PVP, but it is mainly because it is very hard to find a teammate that is actually good, cuz the server I am on has horrible PVP players. So that is why I took on the raid aspect of the game, as all you have to do is join a guild that is not full of idiots, and one that has a good leader who knows his game, then, as long as you yourself don't suck and do dumb things like stand in fire, then you will be able to see the raids and kill bosses.
But now.. I do no aspect of the game (already explained in my first post).