I'll take "Severely Immature for Your Age" for Three Hundred.
I think the problem is that you think the BLF is like the Tumblr or 9gag or other gay-ass stuff like those.
it's not
people here don't appreciate smileys, awful jokes, trying too badly to look mature or intelligent, acting childish, caps, memes, general stupidity, etc. and will act aggressively if you do them
Badspot once said I think that you either take these and accept them or go away
If you are 19, then act like one, not just in IRL, but also on the forums or get what you supposedly deserve for breaking the written and unwritten rules of this rather unique community, and bring shame to the people of your age.
Also this is what is what we call constructive criticism. I didn't aim to personally offend or judge you, but yet I still show you what you have been doing wrong in my and others opinion.