Go off and make your own server, it's not that hard. In fact, hosting a BL server is made to be merely child's play. Pick your addons and everything, plug and play, etc, it's almost impossible not to be able to make a BL server nowadays. If you don't want to make it, either because you don't want to or can't (which more than likely you can't use the can't excuse), just find a friend who will. If you don't have any friends, then request. If you can't get a request out, buy or find server space from someone's dedicated server service. If you don't want to do any of the above, congratulations you are an absolute arrogant prick in refusing to do anything about this. If you refuse to even to the easiest thing to circumvent you going onto stuffty servers and wanting to make the server pool a little bit better and actually change it, you are hypocritical and self entitled.