Remember that chick I met a couple months ago? Meet The Parents Edition!

[Swholli]

Whoops forgot to ask one more thing.

What is the significance of message length? How do I control this?

Also, is it smart to wait for her to iniate conversation?

You are reading way the forget into this.

Just loving talk to her like you would anyone else, chances are that'll work. If it doesn't, chances are you never had much in common in the first place.

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[SquartleTurtle]

how hard is this

ur mom would know how hard it is : ^ )

[sir dooble]

Whoops forgot to ask one more thing.

What is the significance of message length? How do I control this?

Also, is it smart to wait for her to iniate conversation?

Seriously, just calm down, and stop over-thinking things.

It doesn't matter if you send her a big text, or if you send her short little sentences.
If she's going to be insulted or stop talking to you because you sent a message that was too long or too short, then you don't want to be friends or anything more with someone as fickle as that.


Do you have other friends you chat to via text?
Like, people on Steam, or Skype, or friends via your phones?

If so, just talk to her in the same way you talk to them.

[Col. Derontchi]

Seriously, just calm down, and stop over-thinking things.

It doesn't matter if you send her a big text, or if you send her short little sentences.
If she's going to be insulted or stop talking to you because you sent a message that was too long or too short, then you don't want to be friends or anything more with someone as fickle as that.


Do you have other friends you chat to via text?
Like, people on Steam, or Skype, or friends via your phones?

If so, just talk to her in the same way you talk to them.

I just heard a whole bunch of mumbo jumbo about who's chasing who and who's putting more "effort" into the conversation.

[Col. Derontchi]

Alright round two fellas here we go

[Nonnel]

What?

what's not to understand
if someone is replying to you with short one-word texts, they're not interested in holding a conversation with you.
if a girl says "guys should text first," they're referring to guys they are interested in. not the loser that wrote that meme nor the one who posted it here.

[Col. Derontchi]

what's not to understand
if someone is replying to you with short one-word texts, they're not interested in holding a conversation with you.
if a girl says "guys should text first," they're referring to guys they are interested in. not the loser that wrote that meme nor the one who posted it here.

Hey I'm workin on it homie. The thing is though is that she doesn't seem totally uninterested. They weren't all just one-word responses.

[Col. Derontchi]

Mother forgeter I tried to tease her about this story she told me last time we talked and she didn't get the reference. Lmao forget me pt 2 folks

[Clownfish]

no offense but threads like this make me happy I'm too busy drowning in schoolwork to even think of relationships

[Dr.Block]

Mother forgeter I tried to tease her about this story she told me last time we talked and she didn't get the reference. Lmao forget me pt 2 folks

In my experience, if she can't remember what she has and hasn't told you, it might mean she's not interested.

[Col. Derontchi]

In my experience, if she can't remember what she has and hasn't told you, it might mean she's not interested.

Yeah, maybe. It wasn't JUST me though. It was me, and three other people. Over two months ago. The first time we ever met.

Now, do I briefly explain or just forget about it? I wasn't expecting her to not get it.

[Col. Derontchi]

Ooh, do I do some funny response that doesn't quite explain it but also doesn't dismiss it

[GoldenLego]

not the loser that wrote that meme nor the one who posted it here.

hey :c

I just thought it was relevant to what he was saying

[KristoB]

Ooh, do I do some funny response that doesn't quite explain it but also doesn't dismiss it

send her this thread
dont forget: (´･ω･`)

[Col. Derontchi]

send her this thread
dont forget: (´･ω･`)

Actually, I'm thinking about locking this. The only way I'm gonna get anywhere is if I do it on my own terms. I'm extremely grateful for all the help, but I'm going to the field tomorrow to look at Axes. If I run into her, I'll just make it seem like she came there to see me.