Author Topic: Remember that chick I met a couple months ago? Meet The Parents Edition!  (Read 77048 times)

if she doesnt want to give you the number she doesnt want to give you the number dude
this fam tbh

if you really want her number just be serious and ask

You're trying way too hard and she probably has figured that out. It's a big turn-off. Unless you're pretty attractive I don't think you can be saved.

if you really want her number just be serious and ask
if she doesnt want to give you the number she doesnt want to give you the number dude

You've gotta trust me on this one. I know I've been mr. Indecisive this whole damn ride, but this stuff is gettin finished. I know that she's playing hard to get. You've just gotta trust me on this one. All I need is an idea on how to either a.) move on to another conversation, or b.) get the rest of the number
why do u think you know that
I don't see any reason whatsoever to believe she's interested in you
it sounds like she's trying to avoid you without hurting your feelings


You've gotta trust me on this one. I know I've been mr. Indecisive this whole damn ride, but this stuff is gettin finished. I know that she's playing hard to get. You've just gotta trust me on this one. All I need is an idea on how to either a.) move on to another conversation, or b.) get the rest of the number

You just gotta trust me.

It's over dude, you got scared and pooched it. Everyone who comes into your life is either a lesson or a blessing and it looks like this is gonna be a lesson. If you push this she's going to think you're a creep instead of just a loser which is 1000x worse. Girls in 2015 don't play "Hard to get", they just don't, she's just gonna forget you around until you give up.

Take my advice however: make it seem like you don't give a stuff. Just say something like "aight" and leave it. Girls seem to go crazy when a guy wont give them attention, this is a last ditch attempt and I highly doubt it's gonna work but at this rate you don't have much to lose.

It's over dude, you got scared and pooched it. Everyone who comes into your life is either a lesson or a blessing and it looks like this is gonna be a lesson. If you push this she's going to think you're a creep instead of just a loser which is 1000x worse. Girls in 2015 don't play "Hard to get", they just don't, she's just gonna forget you around until you give up.

Take my advice however: make it seem like you don't give a stuff. Just say something like "aight" and leave it. Girls seem to go crazy when a guy wont give them attention, this is a last ditch attempt and I highly doubt it's gonna work but at this rate you don't have much to lose.
This.
Playing hard to get isn't a common practice, and can often be the misinterpretation of disinterest. Just reply with something like "i figured you for an 8" and leave it at that. Forget about trying to woo her, from now on all of your interactions you should be like individuals, not you trying to get her number or flirt. Just interact with her like you have absolutely no intent of trying to get with her and either A) you wont get with her or B) she will start to realize that she wants you and will act accordingly.
Don't push it man, nothing turns a girl off faster than too much unwanted attention, you can still save yourself from being a needy creep in her mind.

This.
Playing hard to get isn't a common practice, and can often be the misinterpretation of disinterest. Just reply with something like "i figured you for an 8" and leave it at that. Forget about trying to woo her, from now on all of your interactions you should be like individuals, not you trying to get her number or flirt. Just interact with her like you have absolutely no intent of trying to get with her and either A) you wont get with her or B) she will start to realize that she wants you and will act accordingly.
Don't push it man, nothing turns a girl off faster than too much unwanted attention, you can still save yourself from being a needy creep in her mind.
That's actually what my exact response was gonna be, but it sounded too needy at the time. I went with Rally's advice. I just said "alright cool. mine's 6". Thinking back on it, maybe I should have gone with the other one. I only wanted her number so I could get away from IG, because it's loving gay. Texting is just easier. Thinking about waiting until tomorrow to talk to her again just to give her some space. Is this smart, or does it imply that I don't care about her? I'm not disappointed by the fact that I didn't get her number.

For god's sake you sound so desperate.

Just try to be friends with her. Odds are she's already got a man she's looking at. Be there when that man is no more and you're all set.

For god's sake you sound so desperate.

Just try to be friends with her. Odds are she's already got a man she's looking at. Be there when that man is no more and you're all set.
It's not desperate, just awkward. I'm telling more of the negative side than the positive side, just for the sake of getting stuff done quicker. I omit many positive parts of our conversation. If she had a man she was looking at, likely she wouldn't have started a conversation with me after finding out that I thought she was cute. Just saying.

Forgive my pessimism but I'm a little skeptical of this working out.

Anyway I still wish you good luck and hope this works out for you. I just want to make that clear.

That's alright. Now, would it be smart to wait another day to talk to her again? I'm going out to the field on Saturday to look at a new marker, and if I see her there, I'll just talk to her. I like talking in person so much better than texting. I kinda hate texting

That's alright. Now, would it be smart to wait another day to talk to her again? I'm going out to the field on Saturday to look at a new marker, and if I see her there, I'll just talk to her. I like talking in person so much better than texting. I kinda hate texting

I'd say wait a day or two and see if she tries to initiate a conversation. If not, then you try starting one. Afterwards, hold back again for a day or two and see if she'll start one. If she still won't, she is very likely not interested at all in you and you'll just be tiring yourself out for nothing by chasing her.

I'd say wait a day or two and see if she tries to initiate a conversation. If not, then you try starting one. Afterwards, hold back again for a day or two and see if she'll start one. If she still won't, she is very likely not interested at all in you and you'll just be tiring yourself out for nothing by chasing her.

When some people see a pretty girl jogging they would take up jogging just for a chance to talk to her.

You, are that creepy guy waiting in the bush.