So my girlfriend broke up with me, Adult Swim has spoken.

[AutoBahn]

honestly you're both kind of at fault, from what i'm seeing here
some of what you're talking about is red flag territory for 'i shouldn't date this person'(clingy, untrusting, inscure & mild hypocrisy) but it seems like you didn't catch on / didn't act on it until it got to your head and you lashed out over it

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[Blockchip]

I don't understand why you're quoting yourself.
It can't be "pageloss" since your post was the 5th on the page.

[Path]

I don't understand why you're quoting yourself.
It can't be "pageloss" since your post was the 5th on the page.

just stop

[Lord Tony®]

I don't understand why you're quoting yourself.
It can't be "pageloss" since your post was the 5th on the page.

For someone who sure does hate me you seem to always reply in my topics to argue about the tiniest of things.

[Nonnel]

all i'm gonna say is that you two obviously don't belong together

[Darth C3P0]

So my girlfriend of like 1.5 years breaks up with me.

Woah, your dating a 18 months old girl?

[Remurr]

And then she's like crying and I told her what she is feeling is just chemical reactions.

LOL holy stuff tony you did not do this

[Path]

Woah, your dating a 18 months old girl?

she's not old enough to say no

LOL holy stuff tony you did not do this

i think tony may be autistic or somewhere on the spectrum at least

[AutoBahn]

I don't understand why you're quoting yourself.
It can't be "pageloss" since your post was the 5th on the page.

you'd figure you'd understand the context considering you took the time to at least read that much into the thread, but i guess not
see here for said context

[SWAT One]

I would say that you were at fault here.

My guess is that your primary love language is acts of service.  Now, understandably, this is really something admirable, and those who have similar "attunement" to this would be better able to understand it and reciprocate it.  My guess is that she wanted something from you, and that you were too focused on this that you really didn't see what she even wanted and recognized the magnitude of it.  Second, it sounded like you tried to take charge in organizing the dom and from what I saw in the OP, it seemed like she didn't have much input in it.  Perhaps she was uncomfortable or apprehensive.  Perhaps she wanted to be able to wait until you both could have a better time.

That is where the misunderstanding ends.

But when you explicitly belittled her when she was not well, you were completely in the wrong.  Love needs EMPATHY above all, and because you didn't even show sympathy, but rather said "what you feel and think is unimportant and what you think is wrong", you didn't care and were keen on showing it.

The biggest problem is that you outright refused to come to an understanding or to acknowledge her.  I don't really feel sorry for you; her reaction seems reasonable.

[Kyuande]

Don't forget that a lot of women are bipolar (some are much worse) so you should go with the flow and do anything you can to help

I don't know who is at fault here, women are confusing and full of surprises

[Lord Tony®]

I told her that we should both agree to not have love with other people or whatever until we fully decide we want to be separate. It's natural for relationships to end and get back together.

She ignored me.

[Foxscotch]

I told her that we should both agree to not have love with other people or whatever until we fully decide we want to be separate. It's natural for relationships to end and get back together.
She ignored me.

lol I would have ignored you too

[Lord Tony®]

lol I would have ignored you too

You'd be fine with your ex breaking up with you to forget some other guy like a week later?

[Kyuande]

I told her that we should both agree to not have love with other people or whatever until we fully decide we want to be separate. It's natural for relationships to end and get back together.

She ignored me.

Looks like you're out of luck this round, probably should of been more careful on what you say, hopefully you'll try to be careful next time, there's a lot of girls to find in the world for you, just got to look harder.

I think there's only 1 ex I have that hates me for no reason but still randomly talks to me, the rest of them talk to me when they want to or need advice, I don't think any girl broke up with me