So my girlfriend broke up with me, Adult Swim has spoken.

[Donnies Catch]

This is so gross dude, cut it out with this stuffty advice. Putting the pusillanimous individual on a pedestal and then cutting and running at the first sign of a disagreement  (or just 'pretending it doesn't exist' in order to be completely non-critical because you think patronizing people makes them 'feel good about themselves') is the exact opposite of how to maintain a good relationship.

but bro /r/relationshipadvice told me to break up

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[Path]

This is so gross dude, cut it out with this stuffty advice. Putting the pusillanimous individual on a pedestal and then cutting and running at the first sign of a disagreement  (or just 'pretending it doesn't exist' in order to be completely non-critical because you think patronizing people makes them 'feel good about themselves') is the exact opposite of how to maintain a good relationship.

So you advocate being in a completely unstable relationship with an insecure partner who tries to monitor your every move and accuses you of cheating on a weekly basis?

I'm no girlfriend scientist but that sounds like trouble

[Lord Tony®]

Within a year she's crying because she wants to know if we have a future together. She's like "I want to know if you want to get married and have kids"

I told her I can't see in the loving future, stop talking to me about it.



I don't believe in marriage anyways. It's the exact same stuff as dating but with extra steps and harder to get out of it.

[Biostorm]

more like pathsive aggressive
am i rite

[Daswiruch]

So you advocate being in a completely unstable relationship with an insecure partner who tries to monitor your every move and accuses you of cheating on a weekly basis?

that's an absurdly loaded question
he probably doesn't but that's not what he said

[KickFlow]

when I say "reincarnation is stupid" she believes I am being malicious and shutting down her belief.

If she believes in something you should respect her beliefs and not call them stupid.

[Path]

I told her I can't see in the loving future, stop talking to me about it.

Beautiful

If she believes in something you should respect her beliefs and not call them stupid.

at least someone knows what I'm trying to say

that's an absurdly loaded question
he probably doesn't but that's not what he said

well that's what I was saying.

[Rally]

So you advocate being in a completely unstable relationship with an insecure partner who tries to monitor your every move and accuses you of cheating on a weekly basis?

Way to blow that proportion sky-loving-high, it sounded to me like she wanted to keep track of her loveual partner on social media. What a damn crime. You make a big deal about making people 'feeling good about themselves' but then you turn around and say you should drop them on their ass as soon as you see signs of insecurity, like what the forget lol?

but bro /r/relationshipadvice told me to break up

TRUST me bro I have seen a titty on multiple occasions

[Lord Tony®]

If she believes in something you should respect her beliefs and not call them stupid.

She shut down my belief in getting frozen when I die.

Any belief is subjected to criticism. If she would rather rot in the ground than life forever that's her choice but it's not a wise choice.

[IkeTheGeneric]

So you advocate being in a completely unstable relationship with an insecure partner who tries to monitor your every move and accuses you of cheating on a weekly basis?

No, he was moreso pointing out that you went from "You should treat her fairly no matter what" to "You should have dropped her like dead weight" immediately as you got context.

[Biostorm]

Within a year she's crying because she wants to know if we have a future together. She's like "I want to know if you want to get married and have kids"

I told her I can't see in the loving future, stop talking to me about it.



I don't believe in marriage anyways. It's the exact same stuff as dating but with extra steps and harder to get out of it.

You're not cut out for real life human interaction

[Path]

Way to blow that proportion sky-loving-high, it sounded to me like she wanted to keep track of her loveual partner on social media. What a damn crime. You make a big deal about making people 'feeling good about themselves' but then you turn around and say you should drop them on their ass as soon as you see signs of insecurity, like what the forget lol?

1) There's ways to make people feel better about themselves without getting into an intimate relationship with them
2) If you have a partner that is super insecure about where their relationship is going you should either break up or get some sort of relationship counseling.

Why would you even try to continue a romantic relationship with a man or woman who is insecure? It's one thing to respect someone's opinions, but if that person is having doubts about your feelings towards them then that's a whole different thing.

[IkeTheGeneric]

Why would you even try to continue a romantic relationship with a man or woman who is insecure?

Okay yeah you've definitely never been in a serious relationship before

[#Jeetlor]

love her

[Landmineman4000²]

She shut down my belief in getting frozen when I die.

Any belief is subjected to criticism. If she would rather rot in the ground than life forever that's her choice but it's not a wise choice.

Why were you two together with completely conflicting opinions and beliefs which the both of you gave eachother constant stuff for?
I know it's the third time i asked but it still baffles me