if you really thought they couldn't help it, you wouldn't have insulted them. thus you are mad
With this logic, you could tell someone that they have been diagnosed with being mentally handicapped based off of various tests the person took, and you would have be mad at them for it.
So no. I can insult someone without being mad at them.
In fact, you can accidentally insult someone. You do not choose to do so, so therefore how could you be mad at them if you did not want to insult them?
You must be in the wrong thread or something. Are you sure you aren't in the robot toy thread?
Uh. No.
Why did you change the subject? Do not waffle the current subject