If you lose a parent, you lose them once. It's done.
There's a time where you do get over it.
Freek's problems with his parents are ongoing so he can feel sad/mad about it.
You don't get over something that's still happening.
Also quit being a richard in every topic where someone has feelings.
both of my birth parents were major druggies, I dealt with it for so many years, you think I don't know what I'm talking about?
I wouldn't waltz into a thread like this with no similar experience be a total richard, but I've been in his position before, and I can honestly say what he is doing is making NOTHING better, he has no right or entitlement to piss off and be a richard to other people because his mom is a druggie.
That's plain and flat out stupid if you think against that