As long as I don't give her a reason to look for other options, I don't feel I have a reason to be worried.
and if she gets bored? I've broken up with people before, without them doing anything "wrong", I was just ready to move on
cheaters cheat. I think it's reasonably possible for someone to change after years, but if she's cheating on someone else with
you, the risk is very high
you could argue that her boyfriend is abusive or whatever, so she's scared of breaking up with him, but if she was willing to kiss you where he very easily could have seen it, she's definitely exaggerating his abusiveness
I do agree that the decision to stay is a reasonable one. I think some people value college too much. if you can make enough money to get by, and you're happy, who cares
but you're setting yourself up for disappointment with this girl