How do I even bring it up. The stuff we text about is the most unserious, handicapped stuff. The most serious thing we talked about was me asking for her adress and her asking me to bring snacks.
I cant be like "hey wus poppin whats do you see in a relationship".
as i said, in the context of anime u two watch. like for example, you two could be watching sao, and you could go like "i really dont/do like how kirito is so flat of a character. wtf could asuna see in him that she would value in a long term relationship??"
obviously dont phrase it like a forgetin english brown townysis class but that should clarify what im thinking of. if you cant even bring up the topic of relationships with her even on the side like this, you wont be able to have an open relationship with her.
as someone who's been in your shoes before, i can relate to how much nervousness can totally impair your ability to talk to her about things like this. but everyone starts from somewhere, and you'll find its a lot less difficult after your first time discussing it
