Regardless, it is clear that both of you do not want to play on the server. That is fine. One cannot appeal to everybody.
Keep in mind that there are people that do enjoy our server. These people complained about the server turning into a deathmatch when we added the "leaders can be killed for any reason" thing. People have different preferences. Some people want to fight constantly. This server is not for them, as it is not a deathmatch server. Some people want to roleplay with fighting involved. This server is for them.